设\(\alpha_{1}=\begin{pmatrix}\lambda\\1\\1\end{pmatrix},\alpha_{2}=\begin{pmatrix}1\\\lambda\\1\end{pmatrix},\alpha_{3}=\begin{pmatrix}1\\1\\\lambda\end{pmatrix},\alpha_{4}=\begin{pmatrix}1\\\lambda\\\lambda^{2}\end{pmatrix}\)，若\(\alpha_{1},\alpha_{2},\alpha_{3}\)与\(\alpha_{1},\alpha_{2},\alpha_{4}\)等价，则\(\lambda\in\)（  ）.

A. \(\{\lambda\mid\lambda\in\mathbb{R}\}\)

B. \(\{\lambda\mid\lambda\in\mathbb{R},\lambda\neq - 1\}\)

C. \(\{\lambda\mid\lambda\in\mathbb{R},\lambda\neq - 1,\lambda\neq - 2\}\)

D. \(\{\lambda\mid\lambda\in\mathbb{R},\lambda\neq - 2\}\)